Showing posts with label host family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label host family. Show all posts

4.19.2012

Surprise! Look who came to visit...

That's right, folks!  Mom and Pops graced Ukraine with their wonderful presence.  It was fabulous. Simply fab.

Their trip started off in Germany visiting some friends from our Alabama days.  Those friends now live in the picturesque, mountain town of Garmisch, Germany.

one of the views from their house...not too shabby, eh?

Soooo pretty.

After a few days in Germany, they came  to Ukraine and we were reunited for the first time in just over a year :) I ended up surprising them at the airport, which was a welcomed surprise because they didn't have any grieven {Ukrainian currency} yet and would need some to pay for a taxi.  I am still recovering from pneumonia and maybe mono as well {a whole 'nother story in and of itself}, so most of their trip, I sat around a lot of the time and let them do the exploring.  My energy levels are nowhere near where they used to be, but I'll talk about illnesses in a different post.  I'll let the pictures do the talking today.

One of the entire reasons for them coming--Ukrainian pysanka eggs {click here if you don't know what they are}.  Mom was in heaven when she saw this giant one in K-grad.

Visit to the host fam's home in Oster. 
Mom, Pops, Andrei, Gala, and Christy

Pops was most shocked at the amount of dishes I wash by hand on a daily basis. 

Mom got to go in the root cellar at the host fam's house.  I was never allowed to go down there because it was too cold...guess that rule doesn't apply to moms? :)

Pops was most excited to go to the post office in Oster and mail post cards.  I was less than thrilled on that dreary, cold day.

We didn't take much luggage to Oster.  Important things that were left behind when we needed them: gloves.  Mom and I shared a pair of mittens while walking around Oster on the coldest day of the trip.

One-mittened Lydia, outside of the gymnasia school where I taught during training.

dinner in K-grad with some of my fellow k-gradders.  
Angie, her mom Dorothy {who also happened to be in town for Easter!}, Mom, Lydia, Vicki, Dan, Pops, and Phil

this picture deserves a post in and of itself.  Photo credit goes to mom. See if you can find something that doesn't belong...

doing pysanky eggs at my office

obligatory pic with the map in my office, and counterpart, Olena

the kittens were born while my parents were here too.  

SO SO SO cute.

Easter meal at Olena's

"The Frost's Take Ukraine"--could be a book.

Pops needed a pic of me with my OU wall art.  

This is what I did most of the trip.  Rest.  

on their last night of the trip, Mom trimmed my hair...this was the first time I've had it cut {other than me chopping off my bangs} in over a year.  

good job, Mom!

Obviously, there's lots more to elaborate on, but this gives you a good overview of their stay :)  they arrived back in Oklahoma last night safe and sound.  Gotta get to work now...toodles!

One last thing...we got to watch some of the kids from my work practice in their dance class.  They are amazing.

4.01.2012

Reason #831 I love my host fam's house

There's nothing like arriving home after being gone for a while.

Random Frost Family tradition: after a long trip, we return home to a Snoopy beach towel {that is probably 25+ years old, which is as old as I am btw, weird.} hung up in the bathroom.  The towel has something along the lines of, "Happiness is a warm blanket" written on one side, and my family is going to have to help me out with what's written on the other side! Totally blanked on it now.

Anywho, the home that I was talking about is my host family's home in Oster.  When I get off the bus and walk the 15 minutes down hill to their house, I know I'm home again.  The dog greets me at the gate.  The cats dart in and out of the open door.  Food is offered before I even have time to take off my jacket.  It's feels so good to go there and be home.

And then, there's my bed.  A queen-size bed that I can roll ALL over and still not use all of the available room.  It's glorious.  That's all.

I got to visit one of my old teacher's Lyuda.  She's a TCF (culture/technical teacher) for Peace Corps trainees.  It was fun to get to chat with her and catch up on life. I also got to meet the new group of volunteers that are living in Oster.  I can remember how excited we were the first time a real PC volunteer came to visit us during training.  The questions we bombarded them with were probably ridiculous. 

I got to say hi to a few of the babushkas who live in the apartment building across the street from my house.  They complimented my Russian {nice ego boost} and asked where all of my cluster mates live now.  Even though it was pouring rain when we stood outside talking, they still had to catch up on all of their gossip.  Babushkas in Ukraine are about as gossipy as a group of middle school girls.  

Can't wait to go back and visit my host fam's house again soon.  Christy {one of my host sisters} showed me how to make a bead bracelet I've been dying to learn how to make.  Super excited to buy more beads and start making them.  

It snowed/sleeted/rained/hailed in Oster today.  Nice April Fool's joke, eh?  Not so much.  

I splurged and had Domino's pizza today in Kiev.  Super yummy margarita pizza.  If only I could get some Papa John's garlic sauce or Kraft Ranch Dressing.  :) 

My energy level is still lacking after the pneumonia.  Walking for 10-15 minutes has been tiring me out. I feel so old having to sit for a while and recuperate after something as simple as going to the store.  

Gotta get going now :) much love. 

1.30.2012

Better late than never :)

I am home safe and sound after a long hiatus of marshrutka rides, metro rides, bus rides, long and incredibly cold walks in the snow/ice, a visit to my wonderful host family, and most importantly, Russian language refresher!  I arrived home last night and made myself my first bowl of easy mac :)

 
It was phenomenal (thanks Hayley and 'rents!).  It tasted just like home.  

I went to work today and got our summer plans started for numerous summer camps and Europe trips and English clubs. However, today, the subject of the post is on a small victory I obtained:

I finally have a new PO box lock!!!!!!!!!!!!

It has only taken a month for them to find and install a new lock.  The good news?  The key works and I didn't have to pay for it! The bad news?  They only gave me one copy.  I'll be going to get a copy made very soon :)

Waiting for me in my PO box was a package slip (for a package from my bro and sis-in-law!), a letter from my Pops (complete with Zits cartoons and a $5 bill that I plan on showing students tomorrow), and a large squishy envelope from an address I didn't know.  I would normally not be able to contain myself from ripping into all of the packages, but since I had two other things to open, I managed to save my brother and sis' Christmas/birthday package to be opened on a skype date late tonight or tomorrow.

Upon getting home with my loot, I remembered that sweet Lyndsay had told me to be on the lookout for something in the mail.  The mail is still WAY backed up over here and I wondered how long it would take for it to get here.  This is Miss Lyndsay Jain, who in my phone is also known as Tarzan from a summer camp we did together in Toronto :)  Get it?  "Me Tarzan, you Jane."    

 Lynds and I on Senior Recognition Sunday (2010)


Also taking part in the package sending was Lyndsay's sweet boyfriend Matt Schlegel (or Schlegel as I have always called him!).  I have known Schlegel for a long, long time...like maybe since 2005?  I was trying to think back and remember the first time we met and I honestly couldn't remember.  Pretty sure the first trip we traveled on together was Choir Tour 2006 to Washington D.C.


3-d movie...Matt's in the blue striped shirt.

Ever since that trip, I have been all over the United States and Mexico and Canada with him...and Lyndsay accompanied us on a lot of those trips the past few years!

"The date train's a comin', the date train's a comin'..."--Juners 2008

caught in a bit of downpour in Glacier National Park (in Canada!)

at the double Quincieniera in Mexico (with Chris!)

surprise going away party, when I was about to leave for Ukraine...


Anywho, you see how much these two mean to me.  I could continue on, but let's just say that they are two of the sweetest and most genuine people I know.  They both have a love for life that is simply contagious and makes you always want to look on the positive side of things.  So, as I opened up my package, this is what I found...

I instantly recognized their own separate handwritings and was so excited to read their sweet HANDWRITTEN notes inside :)  And boy do they know me well...pics from home and Reese's Pieces?  

Inside the large red envelope (which was the last thing I opened) was one of the sweetest surprises ever:   

a Christmas card signed from a lot of my kiddos and friends at church :)

it made me laugh out loud and smile from ear-to-ear as I read each and every note on it.

Thank you LJ and Schlegel for going to all of the trouble of getting everyone to sign it.  And thank you to everyone who signed the card!  It absolutely made my day!  And let's just say that the Reese's were an added bonus :)

1.17.2012

a pretty cool website...

A PCV posted on facebook about this very cool website where you can enter ingredients that you have in your kitchen...and it will tell you a bajillion different recipes you can make with them!  Somebody was thinking when they designed this free website.

http://www.supercook.com/

You create a username and password and start clicking away at the different ingredients you have in your kitchen.  I should not have started this project at 9:36 pm when I'm already done cooking for the day.

Today was a good day in that I feel like the HIV/AIDS project we're working on at my work has finally become plausible.  Grant writing is an incredibly tricky business of which I have NO experience (in fact, the entire grant writing process terrifies me in general).  But, HIV/AIDS education is incredibly needed in Ukraine which has one of the fastest growing percentages of HIV positive people in Europe (I think I quoted that statistic correctly...).  Up until today, the project had been a nagging fly constantly buzzing in my ear that I couldn't manage to grab ahold of.  BUT, today, someone up above was looking out for me and finally gave me that "aha!" moment where things finally started falling into place.  I have a grant coach (a fellow PCV in Ukraine) who has helped me the past week really get some things in order for the grant.  I could not have done it without her (thank you, Stephanie!).  Keep your fingers crossed that the rest of it keeps falling in place...

I skipped the gym today.  Bad Lydia.  But, I did go twice over the weekend.  And, I walked a heck of a lot today with Dan and Vicki to buy our train tickets for the ski trip.  It was snowing most of our walk...which made me that much more excited to ski!

Today's word of the day is something I need a translation for.  I kind of understand what it means, but I'm hoping my dad or one of my Russian teachers will give me the actual translation for it.  Ukrainians say it ALL the time.  Olena defined it as "it's all okay."

договорились
pronounced: do-gah-va-ree-lees

Google translate says it means "agreed."  That makes sense...because most Ukrainians say it at the end of a conversation.  In my head, I pictured it meaning something along the lines, "until we talk next time" because the root of the word (говорить) can be seen.  So, what do you think Pops and Maria?  


I'm gearing up for next week when I get to go to Russian Language Refresher which is supposed to be a fun and useful PCV experience.  Twice a year, the PC in Ukraine hosts Russian and Ukrainian Language Refreshers where PCVs get together with some PC staff to have a week of Russian/Ukrainian classes again.  I am really, really hoping that it will give me the boost of energy I need to get a tutor. Ukrainian Language Refresher is going on this week in the Rivne oblast (way northwest).  My Russian Language Refresher will be held in Chernigov (north-central).  AND, double bonus...I will get to see my host family for the first time since training!  They live about an hour and a half away from Chernigov and I'll stay with them on Friday night after training.  I am so so so excited to see them and see Oster...hopefully covered in snow!  More about Language Refresher later.  Toodles :)

12.04.2011

Homemade goodies all around

Remember how I spent my Saturday being a domesticated 50's housewife?  I'm thinking about creating a weekly blog title that involves that phrase...any suggestions?

I got to skype with my dad yesterday and hear some of the big thunder that was happening in Norman.  Pretty crappy weather, eh, Oklahoma?  After skyping, I got ready to go out to Winston Churchill's bar/pub--Kirovograd's newest American style eatery.  We went there on opening night (Thursday) and tried the onion rings which were pretty stellar for Ukrainian "bar food!" Last night we tried the Greek salad (not quite as good as the authentic Greek salad I had in Athens) and some mozzarella-ish fried cheese sticks.  I think the onion rings are still my fave.  And BTW, if you had told me a year ago that I would be eating onion rings (and not just the fried batter), I would have laughed in your face.  That's how far my eating habits have come.

Today, I got up and started cleaning...again.  I finally cleaned my fridge as best as I could because it needed to be plugged back in!  I ended up having to throw away a few questionable things that didn't feel cool enough.  No Ukrainian would have thrown them away, but I have enough stomach problems as it is...don't need to contribute to the situation.

After the fridge was on and barely running again, it was time to start cooking.  I was having a few friends over for dinner to celebrate Phil's birthday (which is actually tomorrow).  On the menu included:



Homemade Cornbread
Gooey Brownies

If I do say so myself, they all turned out pretty amazing.  I forgot to take a picture of the cornbread, but it's the same cornbread recipe I've made the whole time I've lived in K-grad.  It's a dependable recipe that never fluctuates which I LOVE.  And, the brownies were topped off with some REESE'S PIECES from the good ol' US of A.  {Sidenote: Reese's Pieces are always welcome in care packages...they cannot be found here and will more than likely be devoured in one sitting by yours truly.}

Phil with his pan-o-brownies
I followed all of the recipes to a T, minus the veggie chili one.  Green and red peppers are a) expensive right now and b) not very good anyway because it's not their season, so I opted not to put them in.  I also haven't been able to find cumin at stores here.  I had a pack of Williams Chili seasoning from home that made this recipe finger-licking good (in Russian: palchicki-obleejesh).  They have black beans here but I didn't leave enough time to soak them and cook them, etc. etc.  Whoops.  I also got to feed this southern meal to my sweet Ukrainian friend and neighbor, Yana, who promised me it wasn't too spicy for her!  I did add a little Cholula hot sauce to it :)  She loved the cornbread and chili topped with cheese.  And for dessert, I warmed the brownies and served with ice cream (just like my dad would want!).  Ukrainians do not understand the concept of serving something hot (brownie) with something cold (ice cream).  I tried teaching my host family about this concept...or even simply cake and ice cream together.  They didn't understand the goodness that they are missing out on!  But Yana was a trooper and tried it out :)  I sent some brownies and the ice cream home with her to have her parents try it out too.  We'll see if they think the crazy American next door is teaching their daughter silly ways of life :)

I'm going to post this and go read some.  My Kindle is still one of the best things and most used items I have here with me in Ukraine (kudos to Mitchell and fam for knowing that it would be a good investment!).  However, my one major complaint is that I can't ever remember the title of the book I'm reading.  I'm a visual person and normally visualize a book by the cover and can "picture" the title of the book that way.  But, with the Kindle, I may only read the title of the book once when I download it and open it.  Currently, I'm reading a book called Come Back to Me, by Melissa Foster.  Pretty good read thus far, and I got it on the Kindle daily sale for $0.99 I think.

It's been a good weekend.  Shopping, cleaning, cooking, reading, Christmas music listening, defrosting the fridge, etc.  And I'm even more excited for next weekend when friends come visit in K-grad!  And to top it off, mom texted me a little bit ago and informed me that the Target One Section has Silly Putty in it right now. "How many do you want?"  Thanks, mom!  Ukrainian kids are fascinated by Silly Putty.  Pretty sure adults are too come to think of it...

Happy second Sunday of Advent :)  much love.


11.04.2011

From the sick bed of Lydia...

I've been in bed since Wednesday evening feeling achy and pretty blah. Sore throat, headaches on and off, no strength.  After my absolutely wonderful trip to Poland, Czech Republic, and Germany, I came back and taught two full days of English clubs on Tuesday and Wednesday.  By the last club on Wednesday evening, I was incredibly weak and wanted to curl up in bed at 6 pm.  I think I went to bed at 9:30 pm and slept for 12 hours that night.  It reminded me of my old studio days; our project would be due on Monday, class was over at 5:30 pm, I was home by 6:00 pm and usually in bed by 7:00 pm (sometimes earlier).  I would then sleep until the next morning around 9 or 10 am (that's around 15 hours of sleep folks).  I can remember the first time Stephanie and Allison (two of my old roomies) witnessed this phenomenon...they thought something was wrong with me!  Nope, just sleep deprived!

I am bummed to be staying in this weekend though because I was supposed to go visit my host family for the first time since training!  What's even better was that my old LCF (Russian teacher) Zhenya is on rotation in Oster (the village I trained in) as well as my TCF (technical teacher) Lyuda.  And, most of the Kozolets group (our link cluster) would be there as well!  But, it just wasn't in the cards.  Instead, I've been in bed watching an embarrassing number of episodes of the Real Housewives of Orange County.  It's a guilty pleasure that makes me feel like I'm back at home in Oklahoma laying in my nice, comfy {big} bed.  

This morning when I woke up and pulled my laptop into bed with me, I opened up facebook to be bombarded with status' about my friends playing and hearing Christmas music back in the states.  As I sat in bed, I began to hear what sounded like caroling music.  At first, I wondered if I was really that sick and my mind was just playing tricks on me.  Then, I just figured my upstairs neighbor was playing their tv a little loud.  When I finally got out of bed, I went to my kitchen to make hot tea and heard the singing very loudly then.  As I looked out my kitchen window, I was quite surprised to see what was before me.  


The caroling that I had been hearing was actually a funeral going on.  I stood in awe as I wondered who had passed away--it was a little old babushka as best as I could tell.  The singing went on for two hours as more and more people placed flowers on their beloved.  This was literally happening in the entrance way to my apartment, and I can only wonder who passed away.  I didn't recognize many of the people at the funeral.  Only two or three other babushkas who sit on the benches and watch as I go to work, always saying something to me in very fast Russian that I can't understand.  Definitely a new experience for me here in Ukraine.  

I hope to take advantage of my time at home this weekend by blogging about some of my traveling experiences.  I am super excited to have my first guest from the states here in Ukraine in just a short time...Mitchell will be making his way over to Eastern Europe come Nov. 20!  Much love, Lyd :)

9.29.2011

my pink rain boots and my first ukr. cossack performance!

I love my pink rain boots. And I especially love them here in Ukraine because when I wear them, I'm guaranteed good stories. Like this one time in Oster...we had an impromptu meeting with the school director. It was raining quite hard that day...the school was a good 15 minute walk from my house. Logical sense that I wear my rain boots, no? At the meeting, she shared with us that we would be giving a speech at the last bell ceremony. She laughed (somewhat joking, but not really) and said, "Hopefully Lydia won't wear those boots to the ceremony." Obviously, I know better than that. It was a running joke from that day on anytime I wore those boots. I'm also fairly certain that my host mom was not too fond of them. She was an amazing host mom, never criticized me for what I was wearing...except the boots. She ended up hiding them in the hall closet and would truly only let me wear them if it was pouring.
Let's flash forward to today. I saw the weather forecast...rain all day. I debated, do I break out the rain boots for the first time? I knew deep down that the looks and comments I would get would be great. I get stares just for wearing my black Teva flip flops...so pink rain boots are guaranteed a double-take.

I went for it. Standing at my bus stop: pink rain boots, red raincoat (I know, it clashes, but it's all I've got), aqua blue umbrella. I stand out...there's no doubt about it. I'm fully okay with it though. When my marshrutka #134 came by, I flagged it down and got on. Lo and behold, a lady from work was on the bus with me. She spots the boots...and instantly comments on them...which draws attention from the other 20 people on the bus. No big deal. We walk in together, I head up to my office on the 3rd floor. I see two more ladies that work on my floor who, I kid you not, turn around to do a double-take at the boots. Then, Olena (counterpart) spots them.

"OOOOOOOh Lydia! Look at your boots!" (That sentence was in Russian).

Yes, they're rain boots. It rains a lot here in Ukraine, and I plan on wearing these. They sell rain boots at stores and at the bazaar...what I don't understand is why people don't wear them. Instead, all of the ladies in Ukraine still wear their normal three inch heals...dodging giant puddles and flowing rivers in the streets. Don't worry...I haven't gotten to the best part of the story for today.

Last week, Olena had a lady come to the office for chai. I found out she is a teacher at a school here in K-grad; she also runs the Euroclub at her school, which Olena runs at my center. The lady asked if I would like to come have chai at her school next week (this week), so being the polite Peace Corps Volunteer I am, I say of course. So, at 10:30 am today, Olena and I headed over to the school to meet Olga. As we open the doors to the school, I am greeted by four 10th form boys dressed in suits with name tags on and big, goofy grins on their faces. Olga is standing with them, dressed in a traditional Ukrainian embroidered shirt. And here comes Lydia, marching in with her bright pink rain boots on. Hysterical, to say the least. Oh, and also greeting us open entering the school? A professional photographer and a videographer. My outfit besides my pink boots was nice and up to par for Ukraine standards, but I giggled to myself the whole time thinking about how these boots always bring along a great story.

I was given a tour of what turns out to be one of the coolest schools I've ever seen. It's a boarding school that has students from all over the Kirovogradskaya oblast, who do not have to pay a penny (or a kopek in this case) for their school or boarding. Every student in this school (I think it's basically teenagers...not little kids) is there because they want to be. They have tested at a high enough level in English, math, science, etc., to make the cut for being at this school...and as long as they keep up their grades and attend classes, they can stay there. The school features dormitory rooms for kids that do not live in K-grad, but my understanding is that 1/4 of the kids at school do live in my city while 3/4 are from other towns and villages in our oblast. I was given the royal treatment as we went from the library to the cafeteria to the dance hall (they specialize in choreography classes...love it!) to the workout room to the computer lab to the dorm rooms.

Pause. The dorm rooms...I will have to go back and take pictures of. There are 2 bunk beds, which means that 4 kids stay in that room. I literally thought the room they showed me was like a "model" room for display because it was so spick and span. Nope. We then saw 4 more rooms...and I eventually asked the boys giving the tour if these rooms were actually lived in at the moment. Everybody's bed was made the exact same way; there is no clutter or dust on anything. I was so utterly shocked by this that they wondered if it was like that in America. They probably think American's are slobs now...but in Ukrainian standards, we practically are.

Resume story. So, while Olena and I got a tour of the building, the four boys narrated every room along the way (in very, very good English). It was so cute to see how proud they were of their school. The school director (an adorable old man who has taught at the school for 40 years) tagged along for some of the tour adding in his two cents to the boys memorized and well-rehearsed lines. I might add that the cameras followed us the entire way, for an hour.

The crowning glory of my tour was when we entered a math class room. As is customary, all of the students rose and greeted us. I then had to sit at the desk at the front of the room and tell the class a few things about me and what I'm doing here. They were so cute (and probably just a bit excited to have a break from math) and asked questions about my family and where I lived (all of this is being documented keep in mind...in my pink boots and all). Eventually, one of the four boys in charge of my tour handed me a piece of paper and a pen to write the students a letter. There's absolutely no telling what I wrote on the letter because I was so confused as to why they wanted it. I know I said something how great it was to see kids have a passion about learning and their education, which is true. It was a breath of fresh air to see students actually want to be at school and enjoying it. So, that was my time at the boarding school here in k-grad. I can't wait to go back under less formal visiting restrictions and actually talk to the kids to see what their every day life is like.

My last news of the day: I got to see my first Ukrainian Cossack dance!! Phil and I went to the Kirovograd Oblast Philharmonic performance tonight (thanks, Phil!) and it was one of the coolest performances I've seen in a while. It had everything from an actual philharmonic string orchestra to vocalists to an adorable little girl playing the violin to teenage dancers...and then they brought out the traditional Ukrainian Cossack dancers and musicians. People were filming and on their cell phones during the performance...so I guiltily took out my camera and filmed some and I'm so glad I did. Enjoy it :)


I don't think the video is going to post for some reason, but it's on my facebook account. Otherwise, stay tuned...I'll try to figure it out soon!!

9.20.2011

6 month mark!

Today marks the day when I left good ol' Norman, Oklahoma, to start the next chapter of my life: the Peace Corps.  What a day it was too!  If you want to read a funny entry about my delayed flights, screaming children, etc., click here!

I know I've been slacking on blogging lately...there are two real reasons why I started this blog: I wanted a convenient way to update friends and family back home, and I wanted it for my own memory so that I could go back and remember funny stories that would otherwise probably be forgotten.  So, please forgive me for slacking the past week! I was sick for a few days with a stomach bug, but am getting back in the swing of things now :)

I thought it'd be fun to see some of the things I've done since I left home...so let the pictures speak for themselves!  Since I have been in Ukraine, I have.

Learned the Russian alphabet!
Met my loving host family in Oster
Met my crazy and fun-loving cluster group :)
Taught classes in Russian to 7th and 11th graders

Spoke (in Russian) at the Last Bell ceremony in Oster
Was officially sworn in as Peace Corps Volunteer!

Survived a week-long camping trip...

Cleaned and cooked chicken for the first time in my life...

Swam in the Black Sea!
Missed my train to camp... 
Saw my first fortress in Ukraine! 
Experienced my first Ukrainian summer camp

Attended a First Bell ceremony in Kirovograd
Learned what a jewel-weed is!
Made homemade tortillas :)

Traveled 3124 kilometers (or 1936 miles) by train!

Saw my second fortress/castle in Ukraine in Kamyanets-Podilsky!

The new group of Peace Corps Trainees will be coming to Ukraine today/tomorrow. That means that I'm no longer the newbie :)  which is a great feeling.  They all met for the first time yesterday in D.C. and probably enjoyed their last real American meal last night.  So, happy 6 month mark group 41ers and welcome to the Peace Corps group 42ers!